Man Cash Apps Atlanta flight attendant. Then he starts sending gifts to her home: ‘How did he know?’
A flight attendant says a stranger she met online sent her designer bags and more than $60,000 over the span of about two years, despite the two never meeting in person.
The arrangement took a disturbing turn when gifts began showing up at Forever Call Me Ms Parker's (@forevercallmemsparker) home, even though she says she never gave him her address. Things got even weirder when she began suspecting that he created a fake Snapchat account to get information about her from a former friend.
In a four-part TikTok series, the flight attendant explains that the unusual relationship began in 2024, when a man she didn't know started messaging her on Snapchat. She isn't sure exactly how he found her Cash App, saying she may have previously posted it publicly on Twitter. Either way, she soon began receiving small payments from him, sometimes around $20 at a time.
The hidden catch
At first, there didn't appear to be a catch. “The person wasn't asking for [anything],” she recalls.
According to her, he wasn't asking for photos or favors and seemed interested only in talking to her.
Eventually, after several months, she gave him her phone number and asked him to send a photo of himself. She says she was surprised to discover that she actually found him attractive, and the two eventually began FaceTiming. While he told her he lived in New York, she says he was reluctant to meet.
At one point, she says she told him she would be traveling to New York and asked whether he wanted to see her. He declined. Later, she even offered to fly him somewhere for a vacation while he was dealing with problems in his personal life. Again, he declined.
Still, the relationship continued getting more personal. Eventually, she says, deliveries began unexpectedly arriving at her home. That was the part that made her uncomfortable.
“I'm a homeowner,” she explains, adding that it can sometimes be surprisingly easy to connect someone's phone number with their home address online. “A lot of homeowners, if you type in their phone number into Google, it will show you their address,” she says.
She theorized that after she gave the man her number, he simply searched for it online and found where she lived. Soon, she says, Edible Arrangements, flowers, chocolates, and other gifts were arriving at her door.
She admits knowing that someone she'd never met had located her home made her uneasy. But at the time, she says, she didn't confront him about exactly how he'd done it because she didn't want to upset someone she still didn't know very well.
The creator says he sent her more than $60,000 over two years.
@forevercallmemsparker Part 1
Can someone find your home address from your phone number?
Unfortunately, the creator's theory about how the man obtained her address isn't far-fetched. Cash App reveals your username, display name, and profile photo, but not a mailing address. But “people-search” websites and data brokers compile information—including phone numbers and addresses—from public records, social media, and other data brokers.
According to the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), property ownership is often part of public-record data collected by these services.
The FTC maintains that “most” of these sites have an opt-out option, though your information “may still appear in the reports of your relatives, neighbors, or associates.”
They give concerned individuals a list of steps to follow to opt-out, noting that it “could be a time-consuming process.” For that reason, the FTC recommends a periodic audit of the public information that's available online.
Her former friend gets a strange message
The story doesn't end there. Around the same time, the creator says she had a falling out with a close friend who knew about the man and the money he was sending her. After she told her friend the two were no longer speaking, she says the man suddenly became more interested in meeting up. She added that he later claimed someone had anonymously sent him Snapchat screenshots of that former friend discussing their relationship.
When the creator learned an unknown account had also been sending her former friend money and gifts, she became convinced the account belonged to him and that he was using it to get information about her.
She says she confronted him directly, though she offers no independent proof that he was behind the account.
For now, the creator says she still doesn't know exactly how far the man went to learn about her or why someone who spent nearly two years sending her money and gifts is so hesitant to meet her in person. She says there's still more to the story.
Buzz News reached out to Forever Call Me Ms Parker via TikTok direct message.