Man boards Delta flight. Then his seatmate installs an earring in her sleeve to poke him: ‘You are far too close’

Two Delta passengers got into a viral dispute after a woman installed an earring in her sleeve, which she says was to protect her personal space. The man questions whether her actions were legal.

On Oct. 16, Otto Sipe posted a photo of the incident on X, garnering over 23 million views. On Oct. 18, Kadia Tubman shared her side of the story on Instagram, which has amassed 1.2 million views.

What did he claim happened on the Delta flight?

Sipe claims the woman intentionally tried to poke him. “Met a very passive-aggressive passenger on @delta today,” he said. “Immediately angry about my using the armrest before takeoff.”

“She installed an earring on her sleeve to poke me,” he added. “I didn't mind till the turbulence when it stabbed me. I calmly asked her to remove it; she wouldn't, and told me I was taking up too much of my seat 'cause I'm a man.”

“This legal?” he asks.

What is Tubman's account of the dispute?

Tubman's account depicts a very different side of the story. Tubman said she initially let Sipe use the middle armrest because he was working on his laptop.

However, she claimed he repeatedly crossed into her space and rubbed against her arm.

“I politely told him & demonstrated how his arm was hitting me,” she wrote. “He said there was no space. I said I understood & that's why I let him take up the entire armrest to work.”

According to Tubman, Sipe eventually moved over but later returned to his original position. She said she finally placed her earring on her sleeve about 20 minutes before landing.

“When it finally did because he kept moving his arm up & down (and not bc of turbulence like he claimed),” she wrote, “He was soo bothered.”

Tubman admitted that her actions were intentional, saying she wanted him to stop touching her. She also disputed his claim that she was leaning into his seat.

“I said yes, I absolutely am,” she wrote, recalling Sipe's accusation that she was being passive-aggressive. “I said yes, clearly because you finally stopped touching me.”

She claimed Sipe changed his account when a flight attendant arrived and he later left without waiting to speak with the captain. Tubman said she waited for the captain before eventually leaving herself.

How do viewers feel about the earring incident?

The incident has gone viral, sparking opinions across the internet, with one TikTok creator (@arii.gemini) praising Tubman's tactic as a way to protect personal space on flights.

“If you're being poked by this earring, you're too close,” she said. “You are far too close.”

The creator pointed to the photo Sipe shared, arguing that Tubman appeared to be sitting entirely within her own seat. “She's so self-contained,” she said. “She's like in her own bubble,” they said.

Generally, most commenters across platforms tend to align with the TikTokers' response.

“If you were close enough to be poked by that earring then you're the problem,” wrote @hadeslovechild on X, in response to the original tweet.

Was Tubman's use of the earring legal?

Based on the accounts available, Tubman's actions do not clearly establish a violation of the law. However, deliberately using an earring to poke another passenger could potentially raise legal questions.

Under federal law, assault committed aboard certain aircraft can be prosecuted under 49 U.S.C. § 46506, which incorporates federal assault offenses. However, whether Tubman's actions constituted assault would depend on intent, which would likely be difficult to prove.

Delta's contract of carriage also permits the airline to remove passengers whose conduct creates a risk of harm or is reasonably considered disruptive. However, there is insufficient evidence to conclude that Tubman's actions met these standards.

Subplot reached out to Sipe via an X reply, to Tubman via Instagram direct message and Substack direct message, to @arii.gemini via TikTok direct message and the TikTok comment section, and to Delta via email.

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